The Joy of Less

Your Guide to Decluttering
written by Melanie Phillips

“Happiness is a place between too little and too much.” ~ Finnish Proverb

The idea of living a simple, less cluttered life sounds attractive to many of us. We would like to create a home that is tidy, clean and organised. A place where we can relax, rejuvenate, and find what we need when we need it.

As parents living in the real world though, we know that kids create clutter like nobody’s business. A home without clutter is just not realistic for most families, and everyone’s tolerance levels are different. In fact, it is handy to have a bit of Zen clutter detachment when you live in a house with kids.

Sometimes there is a tipping point between an acceptable level of clutter and complete chaos. Removing some of the unwanted things from your home will help you to regain some much needed physical space, as well as your sanity.

It can often be a bit overwhelming to know where to start. Here are some simple steps to help you get started on the decluttering journey:

1. Start with what's comfortable. It could be one room, one cupboard, or even one drawer. Realise you aren't going to get it done in one day, and don't beat yourself up for that.
2. Set a timer and work for 30 to 60 minutes at a time, depending on your stamina. If you try to make too many decisions at once, you’ll wind up with a case of “decision fatigue”.
3. Sort everything into one of these categories: Keep. These are items you use or that “spark joy.” Let go of things that aren’t practical, or that don’t make you feel happy or joyous. Give away. Is there someone else who could make better use of an item you rarely or never use? Donate these items to people or organisations that will use them - hint, like the Second Hand Emporium at the CHAC Wetlands Festival! Trash. These are things that would be of no use to others. Stained clothing and broken toys belong here. Recycle if possible. Undecided. If it looks old, worn or threadbare, let it go. If it’s cracked or chipped, let it go. Ask yourself why you are holding onto it. Was it a gift or was it expensive? Do you feel it might come in handy one day in the distant future? (Tip: let it go and buy it when you need it.) If you really can’t decide immediately, do not let yourself get bogged down. Box it, and look at it again in six months. A useful mindset that can help when sorting through your cupboards is to give away with an attitude of gratitude, rather than of fear. Feel grateful that you have so much stuff that you have the ability to give to others.